Client Spotlight: I Am a Sexy B!tch: My Boudoir Journey

When I tell you boudoir can be life-changing, I mean it — and this client’s story is the perfect example.

She had done a boudoir session before with another photographer, so she already knew it could be fun. But this time around, what brought her to me was a phone call from her best friend. They decided to sign up together for one of my events, and that energy — two friends hyping each other up — set the tone before they even walked through my door.

Leading up to her first time shooting with me, she was nervous but excited. She had recently lost some weight and was finally starting to feel good in her body again. That spark of confidence was there, but the nerves were real too — totally normal.

What surprised her the most? How much fun the entire experience was. She described herself as shy, not the type to be half-naked in front of strangers. But something magical happens when women come together in a space that’s safe, affirming, and real. Add a few cheerleaders to the mix (hello, hype squad!), and it becomes something bigger than just a photo shoot — it becomes a celebration.

She said the nerves only lasted five minutes. After that? Gone. Her words: “If you need a hype person, it’s definitely Kadee!” (Blushing over here, but I’ll take it!)

Her favorite part of the experience was that incredible, empowered confidence she felt walking out of the studio — the kind that doesn’t just fade. It lingers. It builds. And for her, it completely shifted how she sees herself.

Her favorite part of the experience was that incredible, empowered confidence she felt walking out of the studio — the kind that doesn’t just fade. It lingers. It builds. And for her, it completely shifted how she sees herself.

After each session, she told me, she feels like a whole new woman. More confident. More empowered. Like someone who knows exactly who she is — and embraces it. For so long, she thought she wasn’t pretty enough, wasn’t thin enough, wasn’t “allowed” to be sexy. Now? She knows the truth.

Two of her favorites were a stunning shadowy doorway shot in my white room (the light, the shoes, the pose — perfection) and one of her in the swing — playful, free, and full of joy.

Her exact words: “I am a sexy bitch.”

And you know what? She’s right.

If you’re reading this and thinking, Could I really do this? she wants you to know: Yes. Do it. The confidence will start with the first photo and carry you through the rest of your day — and beyond.

You don’t need to change a thing. You are not too overweight. You are pretty enough. You are worthy of seeing yourself as the radiant, powerful, sexy woman you already are.

Just show up as you. Simply and beautifully yourself.